This is the second time I saw it happening consecutively in two days.
Imagine this: the train is fully packed with people, you(the supposedly macho/fit guy) are accompanied by your petite girlfriend who wore a 5-inch high heels just to accomodate to your height. While standing up, two of you act super lover-dovey and as A.A. as possible. HOWEVER, the next second a person got his/her butt up from their seat and it isn’t even cooled yet, YOU, the protector of the country aka the everything also (want to) bao ga liao person aka the one with more muscle units, immediately STICKS your butt to the vacant seat without even looking at your girlfriend. And to add, you sat down and sigh a relief when you got that seat, and look up to your girlfriend with a pair of tired/sleepy eyes which are trying to tell your girlfriend that: “darling, i’m so tired, pls don’t ask me to stand up again”, and so your soft-hearted girlfriend just let you be.
What’s wrong with the guys/boyfriends nowadays?
NOT SAY I WANT TO SAY(quoting from Gerald Tan), everytime I see this happening, it makes me think about what kind of person I will be marrying in the future. You can say I’m like picking the perfect needle out of the deep blue sea, but HELLO, marriage is no child’s play yah? Of course have to be picky. But just looking at GENERAL crowd of guys, makes me shudder with fear of living my life with such a person.
However, I do agree there’s a lot of guys who “appears/act” gentlemanly. Do not misunderstood. I don’t think that’s a bad thing, ’cause at least you try to be nice to ladies. What I really can’t stand is self-centred men. I’m so sorry about this guys, but looking at real life examples around me, self-centredness MOSTLY occurs inside men. Sometimes I even think that I can be a better man than the men in general. My lady boss told me it’s better to find a guy who is slightly older than you, so he will take care of you and let you have your way. I don’t really think so though. Some secondary school kids are doing even better than grown-ups in terms of letting seats to ladies, etc etc.
So the best way to choose a boyfriend or life partner, is to skim through Gladys’s close guy friends(not the AJ ones lah, they are my sistas k), ’cause only those guys who are good-natured enough will be reckoned as good friends by the great Gladys Tan. LOL. Seriously, up until now, I have never stay long contact with guys who are ill-tempered or self-centred because I chose to do so. Therefore, if you realised I’m not talking to you a lot, don’t worry, you just simply CMI. Haha.
