In my 21 years of my life, I have not been so bad-tempered and easily irritated before. It’s making me feel really bad about myself, and I feel sorry towards him too. I’m not going to let my emotions come over me anymore, because I will CONTROL.
This is what I’ve got through some soul-searching last night before I sleep. And I thought it may be good to share with you all who may be facing friendship/relationship/family problems.
C = Confidence; Believe in what you see, what you choose, and most importantly, believe in yourself.
O = Orientated, socially; One has to be equally balanced, no one can live happily without their life partner/family/friends.
N = Neutral; No one is perfect in this world. If he/she does not subscribe to your beliefs, let it be, because that’s him/her, and you’ve chose to be with him/her.
T = Tenderness; Everyone tends to remember all the agony and bad things associated to the person, but forgot all the love and tenders they got from the same person.
R = Rational; Sometimes, our emotions ride on our head and we do or say things that are hurtful to our loved ones. But at the end of the day, you know you will hurt yourself the most.
O = Obviate; If you know you are going to do something bad/hurting, just remember one super-duper good thing about that person, and I think it can be stopped.
L = Learn (your lesson); Never repeat the same old vicious cycle again.
The once forgotten, is now remembered. I will not let any bad emotions ride over me again, because a lifetime’s too short to be in agony even for a second.
I will Control. =)
